Using your mess as your blessing to serve and enroll others requires clarity, commitment, intention, purpose and inspired action.
Attract, influence, serve and transform those who need you most.
My story, my mess, my journey has been about moving from being the best kept secret to unabashed and confident success in my life, love, and business.
In February 2007, I decided no more settling, no more accepting scraps and no more “good enough”; I drew a demarcation line between who I had been and who I wanted to be.
As they say in marathoning, I hit the wall, and it was ugly. My heart was shattered yet again from a divorce, and yet again I knew that I was the lowest common denominator in the situation. Nothing like feeling that you’ve been run over and knowing you played a significant role in the process, right?
For years I struggled with Imposter Syndrome. I felt like a fraud because I was one – 19 names, 51 moves, and seven passports will do that to you. And although I had helped over fifteen hundred women entrepreneurs launch and move into the spotlight and claim their success I, myself, played small, preferring to live vicariously through them – it was safer.
Back then success scared me! And not just a little but monumentally.
So what changed? I did! I went from being visibly invisible—hiding in plain sight under a variety of aliases—to being highly visible. I wrote my memoir Frock Off: Living Undisguised and everything changed. Once I released the story, there was no going back. I’d crossed yet another line in the sand.
I owned my blessing and finally embraced what I had been told all along – I am a Breakthrough Expert, who moves people from lunacy-spinning to legacy-making. It took me years to recognize that as one of my unique gifts. I thought everyone had it, which, by the way, is often the case with our gifts—things we do and give so naturally that we take them for granted.
I am honored to say we transform and shift those who gather with us. It’s amazing to watch someone move from going nowhere to going somewhere specific and significant. Often, it just takes a simple but well-placed tweak.
Four Key Elements to Enrolling, Serving, and Transforming:
- Position yourself as the expert. Must haves: creditability and vulnerability.
- Demonstrate how you serve others and be relatable. Share the opportunity for transformation your clients will see.
- Share the results – our clients, customers, get these results.
Today, at our live events, Best Kept Secret to Success in Life, Love, and Business, across Canada and branching into the United States, we have a tested and proven system to help women claim their success. Through access, connections, community, collaborations, knowledge and most importantly, a tested and proven accountability plan that is outcome based and results driven.
- Use the ‘So What’ test on everything you do, share and go deep.
With all you do and share, ask yourself, “So what?” If you aren’t moved, your potential clients won’t be either.
You already know what you have is brilliant. You’ve worked so hard, and now it’s time to see the results. Time to move from Best Kept Secret to Success in life, love and business!
So become the go-to person in life, love, and business.
Attract more joy, love, wealth and success in your life without sacrificing your health.
Create transformational and long-term profitable relationships.
Until we meet in person, stay inspired and take action to live the life you dream and deserve.
